Are you a Valentine's Day hater? One of those people who complain that's it's just a made up holiday for retailers to sell more stuff. Well, maybe it is, but it's also a potentially fun day to appreciate the ones you love and maybe even spend a little quality time together.
And Valentine's Day isn't just for the young. Older couples can enjoy the annual day of partner appreciation no matter how long they've been together. Whether you have a long-time life partner, a good friend, or someone new in your life you might consider making the most of the annual event with a little thought and personalization.
If Valentine's Day really isn't your thing, skip it, but before you do consider giving the annual event a makeover. You don't have to celebrate with fancy chocolates and chilled champagne. You're older now, you can make your own rules. You can even do the day on a budget, spending little to nothing at all.
Valentine's Day is a great time to enjoy your partnership, break away from the winter blues, and have fun. Below are a few fun Valentine's Day ideas for older couples that you can enjoy without breaking a sweat or breaking the bank.
A Nice Meal at Home
An evening in a crowded restaurant may not seem terribly romantic for some. If you can't get a reservation, or if you'd rather dine in the comfort of your own home, consider planning and cooking a meal together. If you don't want to give it much thought, a subscription meal box may make it even easier. Either way, it's fun to prepare meals with your loved ones and even more fun to research recipes that you've never tried before. Added bonus to eating at home: you don't have to pay to park and tipping isn't required.
Get Outdoors
If you and your loved one are outdoorsy, it's only natural to consider spending time together on a short hike or walk in the woods. A visit to a nearby park or beach for a winter stroll is not only romantic, but it also gives you the perfect excuse to bring along a thermos of hot chocolate or tea. Or, end the excursion at your local coffee house for a caffeine and sugar hit.
Make Something Together
Planning and implementing a project together may not sound romantic to some but for many it's the ultimate display of love and affection. February is the perfect month to plan your garden, consider fun home improvement ideas, or research vacation destinations. Consider Valentine's Day as a day to invest in your relationship and your future together by making something that you can enjoy.
Celebrate Early
Avoid the crowds of Valentine's Day by celebrating a week or two earlier. You might even find that typical Valentine's Day gifts, such as chocolates and roses, are easier to locate and half the price. If you're super strategic you can plan a nice evening out that coincides with your local restaurant week.
Invite Friends Over
If you want to share in the fun invite your neighbors or friends over for a small intimate dinner party or cocktail hour. You can even prepare a signature drink to celebrate. Make it easy on yourself by asking your guests to bring a dish they love, which keeps with the theme and takes pressure off of you. If you really want to get into it you can send guests home with a goody bag, such as a small box of chocolates or a succulent plant.
A Little Something
Maybe you do decide to exchange gifts on Valentine's Day, or maybe you just want something special to give your sweetheart. The ideal Valentine's Day present should be personal and reflect your loved one's interests, hobbies, or sense of humor. For this particular day, bath towels just won't cut it. Consider gift ideas such as: experiences you can enjoy together; a luxury clothing item (think cashmere or silk); or a subscription to a streaming service, such as BritBox or MotorTrend.
Seeing older couple together expressing their love is so cute giving hope to us youngsters that love still exist.